sarah barukh, acsw
therapy for caregivers & family/relational trauma in los angeles
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I believe therapy should honor the ways our identities & past experiences shape our lives.deserve
I help people who feel stuck in old patterns and painful narratives reconnect with themselves and build relationships rooted in authenticity, safety, and joy.
About sarah (she/her)
We are meant to live in connection with one another, it’s how we heal the wounds from our past and build a future that is rooted in liberation for us all. I believe that healing is a relational process—that it happens when we feel seen, safe, and supported in all the parts of who we are.
In our work together, I’m committed to co-creating a relationship that embraces and celebrates all parts of you and holds space for both the depth and nuance of your unique story. Many of the people I work with feel stuck in old patterns that once helped them survive but no longer feel like a fit. Together, we’ll get curious about those patterns, make room for the feelings underneath, and move toward more freedom, connection, and ease.
I have specialized training and experience supporting folks healing from gender-based violence, sexual harassment, or assault, and am equipped to help you work through trauma, set boundaries, and reclaim your body and sense of self, at a pace that feels supportive to you. I am also passionate about working with clients who are exploring gender, sexuality, identity, or purpose—especially during adolescence and young adulthood,
As a deeply family-oriented person, I’m particularly interested in how family roles, cultural identity, and collective narratives shape our internal worlds and I’m here to help you recognize both where your internal beliefs and stories about yourself are supportive of your authenticity and where they may be creating obstacles to you living your fullest and most joyful life.
As human beings, we encounter so many emotional challenges and struggles, both personally and in our relationships. My purpose as a therapist is to help you connect with your sense of agency and foster meaningful relationships with yourself and others. I hope that through our work together, you’ll come to feel that life isn’t just happening to you, but that you are actively making decisions that are in alignment with your values. I want to help you recognize that whatever you are going through, you don’t have to go through it alone. Personally, I feel most myself when I experience genuine connection with others and I want those who work with me to experience the magic of this as well.
Therapy is about being seen for all that we are and all that we can be. This means embracing one’s identities and past experiences and making them an integral part of the work. Coming from a social work background, I think it’s especially important to recognize how systems and institutions impact how we see ourselves and how we move through the world. In this vein, I’m excited to work with women and femmes who are reclaiming their agency and voice, especially those working through internalized oppression or unrealistic societal expectations.
I also specialize in working with individual and relationship therapy clients who are managing challenging familial relationships—folks with complex family dynamics, including those who’ve experienced parentification, enmeshment, or estrangement in their families of origin. Sometimes called “relational trauma,” “attachment trauma,” or “C-PTSD,” traumatic early childhood environments shape how we see the world, our felt sense of safety in relationships, and our willingness to engage vulnerably with others. As someone who has struggled with anxiety since childhood, I deeply understand the challenges of navigating anxiety and anxious attachment, and want to help you build security in yourself and your relationships. Like many of my clients, I know what it’s like to live with anxiety—and I know that healing is possible.
I’m not interested in therapy that furthers harm and I do not believe that mental health care should be one size fits all. Before becoming a therapist, I worked in political and labor organizing—and I carry these values into the therapy room. I don’t believe in pathologizing people for the ways they’ve learned to cope in an unjust world. Instead, my work is guided by anti-oppressive, trauma-informed, and relational principles that view coping patterns that may no longer be serving you as essential and creative ways that you cared for yourself in an environment that wasn’t supportive of you.
Let’s work together to help you embrace your (very) human struggles with gentleness and compassion, integrate and affirm all parts of you to feel more whole, and foster meaningful relationships where you get to be fully YOU!
support for caregivers
Caregiving takes many different forms, but so often it entails frequently feeling worry, guilt, grief, or helplessness—like there's no room to fall apart. I know firsthand the unique challenges of being a caregiver to a loved one and thus, am dedicated to working with clients who are caregiving for a parent, partner, sibling, or child.
I provide intentional support to those who feel overly responsible in their families, including eldest daughters, caregivers, and those carrying an uneven amount of emotional labor in their families, as well as adult children of parents with chronic or progressive illnesses, who may be navigating anticipatory grief, shifting family roles, and struggling to prioritize self-care. I also greatly enjoy working with fellow therapists, healers, and caregivers, who are supporting those who hold space for others while learning to hold space for themselves.
I possess training and experience in helping clients increase their tolerance for distress and build tools to regulate their emotions and nervous system response, which I recognize can be particularly difficult when you’ve learned that your primarily role is to be of service to others.
I know how isolating and exhausting caregiving can feel! Let’s help you combat burnout and compassion fatigue; reconnect with your own needs, desires, and sense of self; feel seen and less isolated by what you’re experiencing; and begin to receive the care you greatly deserve.
Career Highlights & Key Trainings
Master of Social Work, Clinical Concentration – University of Washington
Bachelor’s in Sociology & Political Science – UCLA
DBT Annual Training – Center for Suicide Prevention and Recovery
Advocate Core – Washington Coalition of Sexual Assault Programs
Volunteer – Sibshops, supporting siblings of kids with disabilities
i am…
I am the eldest of four, shaped by responsibility and deep familial bonds. I am a sister to a brother with high needs autism, which has given me insight into caregiving, advocacy, and the complexities of family dynamics. I am exploring my Ashkenazi and Mizrahi Jewish identity through Reform Judaism, finding meaning in tradition, culture, and community. I am personally familiar with the emotional and practical challenges of supporting a loved one through serious illness. I have struggled with anxiety since childhood, which gives me a personal understanding of what it means to live with and work through it. I am engaged in social justice and organizing, with experience in political campaigns, labor organizing, and collective action.
In my spare time, you can find me checking out way too many books from the library, sweating it out at Dance Church, getting lost on a new hike, singing at the top of my lungs in the car, and FaceTiming with the people I love who live too far away.
california registered associate clinical social worker no. 116267, supervised by anna kim, lcsw no. 110763
We would love to connect with you.
The easiest way to get started at Kindman & Co. is to book a twenty minute complimentary information session with our Care Coordinator, Clarissa. On this call, she will ask a little about you and what’s bringing you to therapy at this time, share about our practice and our relational therapy approach to make sure it’s a good fit, and pair you with the therapist who is best suited for you.
**Please note that we are only able to work with clients physically located in the state of California at this time.