Modern dating often tells us we can have it all, but every meaningful choice comes with tradeoffs. In this essay, I explore why choosing a partner isn't about settling, but about deciding what matters most, accepting the opportunities we leave behind, and embracing the reality that love, like every worthwhile pursuit, asks something of us.

Many conversations about dating focus on what men should do differently. But what if we also got curious about what many men are experiencing? This article explores loneliness, vulnerability, shifting expectations, and why empathy may be one of the most overlooked ingredients in modern relationships.

Compassion fatigue isn't a sign that you've stopped caring or are not doing a good job as a therapist. It's what happens when care is given continuously without enough space to recover. Learn how to recognize the warning signs, navigate the emotional challenges therapists face, and build sustainable practices that support both your clients and yourself.

Many self-help approaches encourage us to optimize, control, and overcome ourselves. This article questions the assumptions beneath those messages and explores how healing can emerge through embodied awareness, self-compassion, and connection with others. Sometimes the answer isn't another framework—it's making space for our full humanity.

Through the metaphor of an old friend who never seems to stay away for long, this reflection explores the realities of chronic depression, the courage it takes to face its return, and the healing power of letting others accompany us through the dark.

Modern dating culture often asks people to perform versions of themselves that feel desirable, manageable, and easy to understand. But queer and kink communities are revealing something different: many people are longing for relationships built on authenticity rather than performance. This article explores emotional intimacy, identity, social conditioning, and the growing desire for more honest forms of connection.

There’s a particular kind of safety many women are taught to want—one that looks like love and stability from the outside, but slowly requires us to shrink on the inside. From generational inheritances to the grief of unchosen paths, let's look closely at what happens when safety becomes constricting, and how to gently ask ourselves: Are we still choosing the lives we've built?

Losing a parent in young adulthood carries a particular complexity—just as you are beginning to build your own life, the ground shifts beneath you. Whether you are navigating the rush of Los Angeles or the quiet corners of Highland Park, it’s important to know there is no expiration date on your grief. Explore why this transition feels so isolating, how the family system shifts, and why finding a relational community is a radical act of healing.

In this episode, Liz and Logan get into what it really felt like to spend a weekend in the desert surrounded by queer community, why spaces like No Other Festival matter more than ever right now, how the experience of seeing all kinds of bodies just existing freely can quietly shift something inside you, and what it brings up when even in the most welcoming spaces, you still find yourself wondering — do I belong here?

For people pleasers, group therapy can feel both deeply uncomfortable and profoundly healing. This post explores how process group therapy creates opportunities for authenticity, relational growth, self-awareness, and the experience of belonging without abandoning yourself.

Many people struggling with people-pleasing, poor boundaries, and chronic self-criticism are not broken—they are adapting to survival patterns learned in childhood. Complex trauma can disconnect us from our wants, needs, and emotional experiences in ways that persist long into adulthood.

This post explores how complex trauma and dysfunctional family systems shape self-abandonment, shame, and our relationship to self-compassion.

At Crafternoon, I didn’t feel as worried about the vulnerability of expressing creativity in front of others because no one was there to judge, or even focus on the outcome. It was like the process of creating together was the juice, and the trinkets and art we left with was just the extra pulp. Some folks learned new crafts, some picked old hobbies back up, and some continued refining their works in progress. Many people brought enough materials to share, making it easy to try something new